Ascendant and Zodiac Sign (12 Pisces Understanding Pisces Ascendant: Understand Pisces Sign in Astrology) by Vijay Dubey

If you’re asking this question, you’re probably a Pisces who is insecure. If you don’t feel valued, it’s not because being a Pisces is bad, but because society as a whole generally undervalues soft skills like intuition and sensitivity. Your challenge is to start viewing these things as talents instead of impediments.
Describing a Pisces’ personality can be difficult because Pisces tend to evade distinction. Their behavior changes significantly based on who they’re around. Pisces are just permeable membranes that pensively let things flow through them. They are cerebral sea sponges. They are boundless, diluting themselves with larger personalities to avoid having to form coherent identities.
Most of the qualities usually associated with Pisces (dreaminess, emotionality, imagination) are internal processes that are difficult to observe from the outside. Pisces are primarily inward-facing. They are not self-absorbed, but they are absorbed in themselves.
Ultimately, a Pisces wants to dissolve. To wrest themselves of a physical form and diffuse into everything they touch as love. To exist in the gossamer liminal layer that hangs just barely above the material. To live their life like a romantic poem. To understand that reality and fantasy are neighbors on the same infinite plane.
The true Pisces weakness is that they’re often the cause of their own turmoil. They’re a little bit addicted to melancholy. Pisces want to feel things intensely. Pisces find sorrow’s poignance pleasurable. They would rather marinate in a voluptuous pit of despair than have no feelings at all. The search for heart-rending emotional experiences sometimes causes Pisces to seek out situations that are subconsciously self-defeating.
Bring a copy of a classic romantic novel to a park that they frequent. Wear a little musk or patchouli. Put a wildflower behind your ear. When you notice them looking, meet their gaze. Stare deeply, but not creepily.
During your first conversation, tell them about your most recent heartbreak. Make sure to slip in that you’ve “never been able to talk to anyone like this before.”
Confess your feelings in a handwritten letter. But first, type what you want to say into Google translate. Translate it into French and then back into English so it sounds more poetic.
Pisces have an elusive charm that can be alluring to some and frustrating to others. Their boundlessness causes them to attract other people with bad boundaries who take advantage of their compassion. Pisces need to learn that they are more than just a mop for other people’s emotional messes.
There is a tension between what Pisces need in a partner and what they want. They want a love that overpowers them. Pisces need to know that it’s okay to be sculpted by love, but that there has to be something definite. Some hard wire underneath all the malleability. Love is not a complete absence of a self, or a full dissolution into someone else. The right partner already knows this and encourages Pisces to build rudimentary walls. A Pisces soulmate is someone who’s rooted in reality while still being susceptible to romance.
Pisces are loyal in their own way. They’ll send a text saying, “I’m here if you need to talk” right as their phone dies. They try to always be there to listen. It may be difficult for them to not internalize other people’s problems and make them worse in the process. Pisces can be gossips, not maliciously, but because they’re genuinely interested in other people’s personal lives. They vacillate between codependent friendships and needing lots of alone time.

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